Communication between partners about sex is important.
I hope that this heart-to-heart will be a tool couples need to take their sex life to a new level.
I know it is difficult telling your partner exactly what you want, exactly when you want it and how you want it. You might not want to hurt their feelings or make them think that they are not good in bed. Or at most times, you don’t have the right words. (I raise my hand for that)
However, sharing your sexual needs and wants will not only enhance sexual pleasure, it will enhance the love and the overall relationship as well.
I feel when you know exactly what to say and feel comfortable saying it; we will feel safer and more content.
On the other hand, when you don’t converse about how you feel about your sex life, feelings of frustration and anger will come to play, and those feelings are destructive to any relationship.
An overall sex talk is important; communicate about fantasies, fetishes, preference and desires [I surely have weird ones] and with that, your sex life will be exciting and even more explosive.
PS. If we travel too fast thinking ONLY of the goal (orgasm), we may miss the sights, sounds, smells, touches along the way. It is not how many times you orgasm (great for you if have multiples orgasms Mr 5 second man) but it is the quality of the sexual experience (toe curling, breathtaking, heart throbbing)